The community for childfree adults
Find your people, show up to real meetups, and connect in discussion spaces built around your life.
Everything you need to find your people
TOC is a private platform built specifically for childfree adults — real conversations, real meetups, real connections. No parenting content, no explaining yourself.
Join your local city group and meet members who actually live near you.
Show up to member-organised events in your city — dinners, walks, coffee, and more.
Conversations built around your life — travel, relationships, career, and everything in between.
Connect one-on-one with members you click with.
Connection rituals that help you show up and get to know people properly.
Your membership funds the platform. No brands, no noise, no nonsense.
Simple, honest pricing
One membership. Everything included. Cancel anytime.
Billed in AUD. Your bank may apply a currency conversion fee.
- Access to all conversations and community spaces
- Private messaging with members
- Local meetups and city communities
- Connection rituals to help you show up and get to know people
- No ads, ever
Cancel anytime. No lock-in.
Four steps to finding your people
It's genuinely this simple.
Sign up and get instant access to the full TOC platform.
It works just like an app — add it to your home screen and you're in.
Join your city group if there's one nearby, or connect through discussion spaces like travel, book club, hobbies and more.
Come to a meetup, join a conversation, message someone. That's it.
What people are saying
"I moved to Brisbane not knowing anyone. TOC gave me a whole group of friends within weeks."
"Finally a space where I don't have to justify my choices. Melbourne TOC meetups are my favourite nights out."
"Within the first week, I had a handful of meetups booked, a solo friend date on the calendar, and a bunch of great convos on the app."
"As bustling as London is, it can also make you feel incredibly lonely. Especially so if you are childfree. TOC has been an oasis of amazing like minded people, just what I needed to build my community, create my village and find my people. "
"I didn't expect to make actual friends but here we are. Sydney TOC is the best thing I've joined."
"I used to dread meeting new people (#introvertlife), but our TOC meetups have really changed that, I actually look forward to them! We have the best little community here! "